"He's Just not that into you!"

Ok so this past weekend I had the chance to see " He's just not that into you!" with valentines day coming up it would be the perfect date movie to see. It keeps the women entertained with all the love story parts and the men entertained with all the humor. I honestly loved the movie and it helped me give one of my best friends relationship advice. Basically she likes this guy but is too shy to tell him; he flirts with her all the time and even goes as far to make fun of her or make stupid little comments ( I know so high school)!! Basically she thinks she's not good enough for him and that if he really liked her he would say something. Im trying to explain to her that not all guys are forward and that a lot of them are just as shy as most women.

In the movie they talk about how women are either the rule or the exception. For example when a guy sleeps with you and does not call you back the next day ( a typical one night stand) you are the rule. However if he does call you back you are the exception!! She has it fixed in her mind that he's just not that into her and that she is the rule!!!!

Urgh... I dont know what else to say or do for her to understand that this is 2009, if women had to wait on men to do everything we wouldn't ever get anywhere!!!!
Sometimes men just need that extra push!!!!

Alysha D.